Make or breakna vow

Make or break a vow!?

Explain: many times people say they will do one thing and either (this falls on both the spiritual and secular sides of the isle)
#1 not do it at all or
#2 they will play you so close to the vest you dont know if its truth or lies

To those that depend on the kindness of a friend or stranger this can be very frustrating. Examples? And these are only examples.

Example #1. Your waiting for a return phone call/text as you know s/he has a cellphone. But that important return never comes. Have you been played a fool?

Example #2. Your waiting at a hospital for a ride home but because of example #1 you don't know if that ride will arrive. Eventually even hospital staff get concerned and try to offer solutions.

Example #3. Your not truly to be behind the wheel of a car until a doctor clears you. So, you hope,  friends will help you until your cleared. But when? Will the help arrive after you run out of groceries or essenials?

Example #4 you say you will help but you give no time frame. This leave people wondering if by your really arriving or not. A person may as well be waiting at a bus stop where no busses even run.

Whether your a professing Christian or not matters little in the above examples.  Truth of the matter is, when people need your assistance be.. RESPECTFULL!  tell the truth or help make other arrangements to help those whose depending on you. One thing a person sitting in a hospital getting discharged or a person waiting to go shopping desire is to be treated with
#1. Honesty/truth
#2. Respect

Did you know that when you say/pen that  you will do something your creating a vow between yourself, the second person and its witnessed in heaven?

I wonder what God thinks about vow breakers?
In short treat others like you want to be treated.

There was a saying years ago that went as follows

"If you have no respect for yourself you wont have any respect for others." --source unknown

References below

Outsource #1
https://www.forbes.com/sites/erikaandersen/2015/10/24/want-people-to-respect-you-dont-do-these-6-things/#261d55cc385a

Outsourcec#2 https://www.quora.com/Why-do-some-people-say-if-you-dont-respect-yourself-you-wont-respect-others

Outsource#3 https://www.webroot.com/us/en/home/resources/tips/digital-family-life/family-getting-and-giving-respect-online